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keeper-of-the-purple-twilight:

I hate this. I hate this so fucking much. It is so offensive. This is implying that women can’t be homophobic. It also implies that only men want sex. I know so many girls who treat lesbians and bi women like crap and avoid them because they think just because she likes girls that she will flirt with her, girls treating gay men like accessories, only wanting to be our friend just because of our orientation assuming we will do stereotypical things with them, fetishizing gay and bi men (yes that DOES happen), shipping two men together just because they are two men and writing PORN stories, you know how straight men are known for fetishizing lesbians and watching lesbian porn? Girls do that to gay and bi men, holding signs at gay pride things with a picture of their “otp” saying “let my gays get married”, yaoi, taking pictures of gay men without them knowing (that happened to me, I found it on instagram with some “repost if you love gays” post. My boyfriend wasn’t out yet and one of his clients saw it and reported him and he got fired.), females outing gay men without their consent to ‘brag’ that they know a gay man, homophobic mothers, my female teacher pointed to me and said to the class I will get AIDS when we were talking about the 1980s causing me to be bullied, the list goes on. After I came out: My mom would tell my siblings to no longer call me by my name but instead call me “queer” and “faggot”, she would beat me until she got tired of me and threw me out. Most girls fetishize gay men and treat lesbians and bi women horribly. Fetishization is NOT support. People don’t realize that.
My best friend (a straight male) has been with me through it all.
But yeah it is only straight men who are homophobic!!!

keeper-of-the-purple-twilight:

I hate this. I hate this so fucking much. It is so offensive. This is implying that women can’t be homophobic. It also implies that only men want sex. I know so many girls who treat lesbians and bi women like crap and avoid them because they think just because she likes girls that she will flirt with her, girls treating gay men like accessories, only wanting to be our friend just because of our orientation assuming we will do stereotypical things with them, fetishizing gay and bi men (yes that DOES happen), shipping two men together just because they are two men and writing PORN stories, you know how straight men are known for fetishizing lesbians and watching lesbian porn? Girls do that to gay and bi men, holding signs at gay pride things with a picture of their “otp” saying “let my gays get married”, yaoi, taking pictures of gay men without them knowing (that happened to me, I found it on instagram with some “repost if you love gays” post. My boyfriend wasn’t out yet and one of his clients saw it and reported him and he got fired.), females outing gay men without their consent to ‘brag’ that they know a gay man, homophobic mothers, my female teacher pointed to me and said to the class I will get AIDS when we were talking about the 1980s causing me to be bullied, the list goes on. After I came out: My mom would tell my siblings to no longer call me by my name but instead call me “queer” and “faggot”, she would beat me until she got tired of me and threw me out. Most girls fetishize gay men and treat lesbians and bi women horribly. Fetishization is NOT support. People don’t realize that.

My best friend (a straight male) has been with me through it all.

But yeah it is only straight men who are homophobic!!!

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naotakunn:

i cant believe this. i cant fucking believe this. i meant to send this to my boyfriend but instead i sent it to my boss right after i told her i was quitting all i wanted to do was make an inappropriate cookie joke but no i got mixed up texting two people at once and literally sent a picture of a chocolate chip cookie captioned “ooh she thique” to the fifty year old suburban mother of two of whom i have nothing but a strictly professional relationship with. after knowing me for almost a year and a half as a hard working and respectable employee this is the last thing i will ever say to her i can never go back to that shop again all because of this god damn cookie blunder What have i Done

naotakunn:

i cant believe this. i cant fucking believe this. i meant to send this to my boyfriend but instead i sent it to my boss right after i told her i was quitting all i wanted to do was make an inappropriate cookie joke but no i got mixed up texting two people at once and literally sent a picture of a chocolate chip cookie captioned “ooh she thique” to the fifty year old suburban mother of two of whom i have nothing but a strictly professional relationship with. after knowing me for almost a year and a half as a hard working and respectable employee this is the last thing i will ever say to her i can never go back to that shop again all because of this god damn cookie blunder What have i Done